How do you get what you want in life?

How do you get what you want in life?

Last time I talked about why you don’t reach your money goals. If you missed it, you can read it here.

It basically comes down to changing your money mindset, tapping into your inner ‘bad-ass’ and get into the drivers seat towards your future.

I know, easy for me to say… and I can hear you now;

“How do I do that?”  “I’ve set money goals in the past and never reached them.”

(Like I said in the last post – there are many reasons ‘why’ … you read them here)

I get it! You’ve tried before only to fail… (I too have my own encyclopedia of stories and excuses!)

And that’s where we drop the ball because we take those beliefs as our truth when in fact they are made up purely from our experiences and what we were taught.

The cool thing is, they can be erased and replaced and you can be, do and have whatever you desire. The real problem facing most of you is you don’t know exactly what you want.

So how do you get what you want in life? First off, stop wanting what everybody else wants for you. 😉

Frankly, you’re going to need a wet-suit… because it’s time to take a deep dive into your heart’s desires.

For you to be happy and believing you deserve it, (because you do!) it’s time to turn up the ‘Self-Care’ to create what you want (aka – Self-Worth).

I’m talking about living a better quality of life, one which abundance, happiness, love, and yes money that flows freely to you and from you.

When you decide, you will automatically become obsessed with thoughts of making it happen, you’ll be looking for opportunities, you’ll be in gratitude that it already exists, you just need to attract it and be open to receive it.

Money gives us choices – better choices. We don’t want money to want money, we want money for our hearts desires and be happy … period.

The thing is, abundance and wealth comes to those who believe anything is possible, even when all signs point to “no way in hell!”

Desperation repels – gratitude attracts.

And the number one factor that was a game changer for me… I surrounded myself with friends, mentors and hired coaches who would cheer me on, offer support and strengthen my faith in myself.

I was part of mastermind groups of like-minded women who pushed me out of my comfort zone, and helped me up my game. We shared our resources, ideas, our connections, know-how and big thinking enthusiasm.

Coming together with other kick-ass women took me much farther and faster to my goals than working by myself. It was way easier to surround myself with people that had my back and celebrated my success … no matter what.

Now I want to create this for you… it’s a ‘pay-it-forward’ for me. ♥

I see too many women that live in lack and settle. With just a little support, their lives would change forever… mine did!

If these words are resonating with you and you feel stuck; tried it before; frustrated; or just don’t know what step to take next… then I invite you to look at my new 90 day Bad-Ass Money Goal Challenge.


Here is a link for more information.


The number one thing that holds us back is resisting change. But when we change our minds… we change our lives.


I believe in you and the greatness that resides in you…let it win over the BS ♥


Lost of love,

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