And go figure… there’s even been research done that shows that our brains love predictability and knowing what to expect.
That makes a lot of sense to why we’ll choose something that we don’t really want just because it’s familiar.
Now unless someone points it out to you, how do you know you’re ready for a change?
Here are 5 signs that you are ready to do something different, and change it up:
1. Uneasiness, major anxiety and discomfort. You would rather run for the hills than deal with it. You are losing sleep, […]
|As we head into the final months of 2017… I have a question for you…
‘Is your life where you thought (maybe planned) it to be at the beginning of the year?’
‘If you set any goals, how are you doing?’
If you are rocking it out – congratulations, it does feel amazing when you are on target and having fun, making money, in a fantastic relationship, travelling or what ever your source of ‘joy’ is!
If you’re not where you wanted to be, why not?
Did circumstances beyond your control come up?
Did you make the […]
What a fantastic summer I had!
But now it’s time to check back in with my goals and rock out the rest of the year!
A couple of nights ago, at my local Women’s Business Network, I talked about how women are allowing money problems to mess up their business (and life).
Most of the ladies were nodding their head along when […]
Do you believe it or was your first reaction… “Yeah right, I don’t think so!”
For so many it can be hard, stressful, and depressing. It can be embarrassing which leaves you feeling shameful, guilty, stupid and hopeless. I know, I’ve had my own struggles.
Here are some of my clients’ biggest financial struggles that they’ve shared with me…
I am often asked for one simple step, a useful constructive action that you can take right now to make a difference when it comes to your money, regardless of your age or situation.
Here it is…
If you want different results then you will have to do things differently.
Commitment to change always precedes success with your relationship to money.
Until you’ve committed to what you want, goals are irrelevant, dreams are useless, and hopes are no more than a pipe dream.
It provides you with passion, energy and […]
You have to see a reality where your success with money is possible.
Because when you believe that you can overcome challenges by changing your behaviour, you choose to believe that you live in a world in which challenges can be overcome.
What you do (your […]
I love this quote from Albert Einstein and when it comes to money, we all make money mistakes.
Not only do we make mistakes but then we feel horrible about them and ourselves.
Can you relate? Have you ever struggled with being critical of yourself over a money mistake? Are you weighed down with regret over what you did or didn’t do? Do you keep thinking and thinking and thinking, going round and round wishing you’d done things differently?
Me too! To make it worse […]
Are you a woman and own your own business?
Did you know that 4 out of 5 businesses are started by women?
Although it is changing, the sad news is that women are still making less money (on average) than the guys. (But thankfully that gap is getting smaller!)
Being President of my local Women’s Business Network, I see so many women struggle and eventually just give up and go back to being an […]
What do you believe about being successful?
What story have you told yourself about your present and future relationship with money?
Is it doomed or are you living a kick-ass life?
Here’s the thing that I say over and over again to my clients….
Yet most don’t get help for 2 reasons;
And do they talk about it?
Nooo … it’s right up there with the other popular taboo subjects; sex, politics and […]
How do you get what you want in life?
Last time I talked about why you don’t reach your money goals. If you missed it, you can read it here.
I know, easy for me to say… and I can hear you now;
“How do I do that?” “I’ve set money goals in the past and never reached them.”
(Like I said in the last post – there are many reasons ‘why’ … you read them here)
I get it! […]